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Birth stories
I'm Cass and I have twins Ella and Kieran who are 3 yrs old, and
Megan who is 1. This is my birth story
On 27th November 2000 I was 35 weeks pregnant. I had been for a
scan and blood tests in the morning (had been going twice weekly),
as I had obstetric cholestasis which is a liver disorder in pregnancy.
I had had this for about 3 weeks prior to having the twins. It is
a fairly uncommon complaint in pregnancy but is more common in multiple
pregnancies. The signs are severe itching particularly to the hands
and feet at night. If left untreated can cause still birth or birth
defects. I had been given another 2 dates for scans the following
week, so was feeling very down. I just wanted to have my twins here
and well, as the OC showed no signs of stopping. It was 6 o'clock
that night and I had just finished watching neighbours, when twin
1 gave what felt like the biggest jump/kick ever, this made me move
from the chair, and start to rush to the toilet. But when I got
up there was a puddle on the floor, so I am now thinking is this
my waters or have I wet myself! I was half way to the phone, but
I froze, as I knew my husband would be home within the next minute
so no point ringing him. The puddle on the floor was really big,
I don't think I was expecting so much fluid. By this time I was
in tears and at the same time trying to keep the cat away from licking
what I now know were my waters.
Just then the door opened and my husband came in, all I can remember
saying was I think I've wet myself, he told me not to be so silly
and rushed to ring my Mum. Then he rang the hospital. Mum and Dad
came round and we rushed to the hospital, well not all of us we
left poor old Dad to clean up the mess (good old Dad). At the hospital
was put into the antenatal room where all the curtains bar one was
drawn, and hooked up to the monitor. Could trace the heart beats,
but could also see the placenta monitor was working every 6/7 mins
but I couldn't feel any contractions - all I felt was myself getting
stroppy with everyone (not like me at all). I could then hear the
midwife telling the girl in the cubicle next to me " don't worry
you'll be examined next" at this point I said to Mum tell them to
come and examine me as I need to have an epidural as I don't want
to be knocked out if I have to have a C'section. Mum did as I asked
and the midwife said I would be very soon. Still couldn't feel the
contractions. When examined it was about 7:30 and I was 3cm. Carried
on without pain killers, then I could start to feel pain so asked
for gas and air, and was then examined again this was about 9pm,
this time I was 7/8 cm and can remember the midwife say that's gone
quick, when Mum told them she had my brother in 3 hrs was told this
should have been mentioned sooner! Taken to the labour room for
my epidural. At this point Dad was here aswell. The midwife looking
after me said, " Is your Dad called Philip Amey" to which I replied
"Yes" dad seems to know everyone. She then said " thought so my
husband used to live with him when they were 21 in Brighton" and
then they proceeded to chat about old times, "erm Hello I'm having
twins here"
Carried on having G&A while having my epidural and didn't feel
a thing. The epidural wasn't what I was expecting, I was expecting
not be able to feel anything and not to be able to move, but could
still feel slight pain and could move quite well. I was then taken
to the theatre, common practice when having twins as more things
can go wrong. Opal fruits - that's what I really fancy opal fruits.
Ask Dad to go and get some, 1hr later he's back with some. The labour
progressed fine at about 11:40 was told I was ready to push and
so I was then thinking please let them be born on the same day.
Well 2 ½ hours later and twin 1's head is crowning, and everyone
is encouraging me to push harder " I am pushing hard" was all I
kept saying. Mum has since told me this 5/10 mins was so frustrating
as they kept seeing twin 1's head and then I would stop pushing,
when I looked up all I could see was one of the paediatricians checking
his nails. Did he not know this was one of the most important things
that has ever happened to me. Finally after more the 2 ½ hrs at
02:17am on 28.11.00, weighing 5lb 5oz Twin 1 was born " a little
girl" (now I'm welling up) is wrapped up and placed in my arms my
little girl and I love her unconditionally. She will be called Ella.
Then I was asked if I was having more contractions, more I had
forgotten about twin 2, I had my baby in my arms, and I had forgotten
I had to carry on. By this rate twin 2's heart rate was dropping
and contractions hadn't fully started again so they decided that
twin 2 would be born by ventouse, I felt nothing and twin 2 came
out very quickly. At 02:27am on 28.11.00, weighing 4lb 10oz twin
2 was born " A little boy" a very little boy, smaller than his sister,
Mum and Dad were holding Ella, and my little boy with no hair was
placed in my arms, His name will be Kieran. Couldn't hold him for
long, as his breathing wasn't brilliant. Kieran was placed on his
little trolley and encouraged to do wel. Both Ella and Kieran were
taken to special care, Mum and Dad, went with them and me and my
DP went back to my maternity ward. Marmite toast that's what I wanted
to eat and the lovely staff made me some. Then was told they would
run me a bath, it was nice to get clean, then I got settled in my
room, this was about 4am was told I would have a do not disturb
sign on the door. At 7:30am in came Sandra the tea lady asking if
I wanted a cuppa, she recognised me from being in previously and
was the first non family member to congratulate me, it is such a
proud feeling to tell people about your own children. Ella and Kieran
spent 10 days in SCBU. Kieran had to be ventilated for about 6 hrs.
The only other thing was to get them feeding properly as they were
35 weeks and the sucking reflex hadn't kicked in, I was lucky enough
to be able to spend the whole time in hospital with them.
 
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